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Religion is rarely discussed in hospitals, despite its power to heal
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New research shows that doctors rarely talk to their patients about religion towards the end of their life. Here's a look at why that might not be the best course. - photo by Herb Scribner
Religion is an important and influential aspect of our lives, even as we near death.

But a new study from researchers at the University of Pittsburgh found that religion is rarely discussed between patients and doctors in intensive-care units, according to Fox News.

In fact, in most cases, the patient brings religion up in conversation, not the doctor. This is especially true in end-of-life situations, when a patient surrogate is making decisions for someone who is in intensive care and on the brink of death, Fox News reported.

Surrogates most often mentioned their religious beliefs, practices or community, or that the doctor is a healing instrument of god, or that the end of life will be a new beginning for the patient, Fox News reported.

To find this, researchers analyzed 249 meetings from 2009 to 2012 between physicians and an ICU patients surrogate decision maker. Religion was only discussed in 40 of the conversations. In most cases, doctors focused the conversations on medical issues and rarely asked about the patients religious beliefs or their own, Fox News reported.

Lead researcher, Dr. Douglas B. White, said that its important for doctors to consider their patients religious beliefs in intensive-care situations because it may influence their decision making, especially in end-of-life situations, according to Fox News.

"Regardless of whether the patient has decision-making capacity, clinicians should try to determine whether patients' religious and spiritual beliefs may affect the kind of medical care that is respectful of what is important to the patient as a person," White said. Separately, many family members of critically ill patients find solace in their religious or spiritual beliefs, and it may be helpful for clinicians to understand this to better support them."

Religion has been known to have a beneficial impact in the hospital for patients. For example, a 2004 study found that religious patients healed quicker and were less likely to visit a nursing home after their hospital stay, according to WebMD. The study found that patients who read the Bible, prayed or attended religious activities spent fewer days in the hospital and were admitted to the hospital less often, too.

Researchers said the 2014 study should inspire hospitals and their workers to promote religion during ones hospitalization, and offer ways for patients to find religious and spiritual activities once theyre out of the hospital to help them heal.

Several studies in the last decade have pointed towards the healing power of prayer, according to Newsmax Health. Duke Universitys Harold G. Koenig told Newsmax Health that research continues to show prayer can not only keep people from getting sick, but also help them heal faster.

Researchers also told Newsmax that prayer can benefit people psychologically, mentally and socially, Newsmax reported.

The benefits of devout religious practice, particularly involvement in a faith community and religious commitment, are that people cope better. In general, they cope with stress better, they experience greater well-being because they have more hope, they're more optimistic, they experience less depression, less anxiety and they commit suicide less often, he told Newsmax. They have stronger immune systems, lower blood pressure and probably better cardiovascular functioning.

But this isnt always the case. Mark Kellner reported in March of this year that sometimes prayer and religious healing practices dont always save one from medical issues or death because God may have bigger plans in mind.

"The body and everything in the universe belongs to God," Islamic scholar Salih Yucel told Kellner. "God wants to display his (ways) on human beings. If people do not get sick, they won't know who is the healer. If they don't get hungry, they won't know who is the provider."
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How to avoid 'sharenting' and other paparazzi parenting habits
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A recent study revealed parents often spend up to two hours staging a single photo of his or her child to post online. - photo by Amy Iverson
Before having kids, some people just dont appreciate their friends baby posts. But after having a child of their own, three fourths of new parents jump right on the parental social media bandwagon. If you have become a member of this group, there are some rules to follow for posting responsibly.

Much of a parents worry is how to teach their children to use social media responsibly. We talk with our kids about privacy, oversharing, and setting restrictions on their devices to keep them safe. But parents themselves need to look in the digital mirror once in a while. Before having children, it doesnt take as much effort to think about what to post online. Its up to us to decide what we share about our own lives. But once you become a parent, there are many questions to think about regarding what is appropriate to post about your kids on social media.

In a recent survey, kids clothing subscription company Mac and Mia surveyed 2000 new parents to find out how they are documenting their kids lives on social media, and what concerns they may have.

First of all, people without children seem to feel a bit differently about the onslaught of baby pictures online than those who are parents. 18 percent of people say before they had kids, they were annoyed by their friends baby posts. But after having children of their own, 73 percent admit they post progress pictures of their little ones every single month.

Not only are new parents letting the world know each time their baby is a month older, but they are posting about their kids every few days or so. Men and women report they post 6-7 times per month about their baby.

And while 70 percent of new parents say the benefit of using social media is how easy it is to help family and friends feel involved, there are some downsides. Here are a few tips to avoid the pitfall of becoming paparazzi parents.

Dont miss the moment

In the Mac and Mia survey, some parents admitted to spending up to two hours to get the perfect shot of their baby. That seems a little extreme. New and old parents alike should be careful about spending so much time taking pictures and videos that they dont enjoy the moment. Years ago, I decided to never live an experience through my phone. A study by Linda Henkel, a psychology professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut, found that when people took pictures of objects in an art museum, they didnt remember the objects as well as if they simply observed them.

This photo-taking impairment effect can happen to parents as well. If we are so consumed by getting the perfect photo, we can miss out on the moment all together, and our memory of it will suffer.

Dont forget about privacy

60 percent of couples say they have discussed rules and boundaries for posting their babys photos, according to the Mac and Mia survey. Even so, men are 34 percent more likely to publish baby posts on public accounts. If parents are concerned about their childrens privacy, keeping photos off of public accounts is a given.

In the Washington Post, Stacey Steinberg, a legal skills professor at the University of Florida, and Bahareh Keith, a Portland pediatrician, wrote that sharing too much information about kids online puts them at risk. They write that all that sharenting can make it easier for data thieves to target out kids for identity theft. Check that your privacy settings are where they should be and never share identifying information like full names and birth dates.

Dont be paparazzi parents

36 percent of parents say they take issue when their childs photo is posted online by someone else. Responsible social media users will always ask permission before posting a photo of another child. But parents should also think about whether their own children will take issue with their own posted photos a few years down the road.

When parents are constantly snapping pictures and throwing them on social media, it can be easy to forget to pause and make sure the post is appropriate. I always use the billboard example with my kids. I ask them to picture whatever they are posting going up on a billboard in our neighborhood. If they are okay with that, then their post is probably fine. Parents should ask themselves this same question when posting about their children. But they should also ask themselves if their child would be OK with this post on a billboard in 15 years. If it would cause embarrassment or humiliation, it might be best to keep it private.

Once children reach an appropriate age, parents should include them in the process of deciding what pictures are OK to post. Researchers at the University of Michigan surveyed 10- to 17-year-olds and found children believe their parents should ask permission more than parents think they should. The kids in the survey said sharing happy family moments, or accomplishments in sports, school and hobbies is fine. But when the post is negative (like when a child is disciplined) or embarrassing (think naked baby pictures or messy hair), kids say to keep it off social media.
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